"While i was busy in ANALYSING MYSELF, i realised i missed ENJOYMENT, While i was busy in enjoyment i realised i missed OPPURTUNITIES, While i was busy in gathering opportunities i realised i missed PEOPLE WHO LOVED ME, While i was busy in getting back people who loved me i realised i missed BEING MYSELF..... So now i live to the fullest WITH NO REGRETS"

Tuesday, March 31, 2015

"I Too Have A CHOICE"

                      I agree every individual have individual rights and identity....it's not about a man or a woman, it’s about a good man or good woman... There are a set of habits we are preached since the beginning of our childhood, we call them manners... Ofcource they are different for men and women, ideally they should be but now the fight has raised because women are demanding not the equal rights but the same treatment as men gets, not understanding the fact that same set of manners are not applicable for both genders. If you are saying there is an inequality in the system amongst men and women them i must say this inequality is necessary in the society in order to maintain the balance in the ecosystem we need somebody superior over the other to maintain discipline as we need monitors in class managers in factories team leaders in corporate and head of the family in our home, and it’s not by our choice, its by our destiny God has made men different than women, and we have just accepted this fact. This superiority is somewhere and somehow misunderstood by some people as dominance. This superiority is actually beneficial for women, as we yield utmost respect to the other gender, we always try to protect our mother, sister, wife, friend in public or in society knowing that god has made them weak physically and there are sick people who can take undue advantage of your weakness, and we admit somewhere we fail, but for that we shouldn't be treated with hatred. I also accept we have some men and ofcource some women in our society believing superiority can dominate opposite gender, but they are sick, they need treatment or abandonment, but definitely not entire clan of masculine gender is blamed for that.

In India and all parts of the world To make a career can be a choice for women but it is a responsibility for men, if a family is striving for hunger nobody blames the women, Everybody blames the men of the house (it can never be his choice to work or to sit idle) and dear here in India the case is no different..  Both the genders are judged according their social characteristics. Here the woman and men both are judged at every step, if it’s what u wear for women, then how dare you stare for men, (Because after wearing a breast revealing dress in front of a man's face women expects man to act like a blind person, it’s not possible my friend its natural). If it's what u do for women then what r u doing for your family for men etc. etc. which you might have never seen in so many countries. In most of the countries virginity is not overrated, in most of the country prostitution is legalized, in most of the Islamic countries not wearing “burkha” is a crime, in many countries doing sex in public is not a crime, who will tell me whom to follow? Come out from your fancy world girls. I can also see the world in a different order and the people at our country in a different order, can I make irrational demands giving examples of other countries? "NO" Suppose if majority of people wants to legalize the rape in Haryana, would it be possible..... Considering it there choice? Again "NO" so do not degrade feminism against the shade of making CHOICES Ms Deepika Pdukone.

This is a wonderful video for boosting your false ego, "Girls". Although there is a sense of relief itself to the "Civilization" to see that most of the people and sensible girls over the internet have discarded the video, the message and the impropriety associated with it by calling it a piece of pure bullshit. Still for the rest of them I want to shoot some more examples. Not Dominance but the rule of superiority follows everywhere, in animals, birds, insects and human too.... can you go and stop a Dog raping a bitch in public? Where does your feminism go in case of animals? I know you will say we are not animals, there should be some difference between animals and humans but, remember human is also a social animal, his needs are same but he got more control power. To save his wonderful creation called mankind God itself has prompt us to create something called civilization to make our living dignity full for both men & women, don’t disturb this balance.
Now accounting the big words "Rights" & "Duties" "Pleasure" & "Responsibilities" I found an interesting fact and I am inviting anybody to rebut if I am wrong. Tell me if men & Women are equal or should be equally treated then why after separation or divorce it is always expected from Men to pay the Alimony to his partner, why cannot he get alimony from his wife? Why he is forced to pay the expense for the maintain ace of the child and herself. As you people say a husband and wife coming both from work, equal profession, and equal designation comes home earning equal salary, but at our society end it's expected that as a man he should contribute towards the household expenses. Why there such a law exist? Any answers? But our patriarchal society never complains about that, if man made society has put some restrictions over women then they have put more restrictions and conditions over themselves too. Girls, you would not have get a chance to raise your voice and rebel if our superiority turns to dominance, and you can see the example in some sharia law countries, do you want that to happen in India too?

Since ages Men and women collectively made some rules for society and it was a collective decision that men are chosen to work outside for earning livelihood and women chooses to stay at home to do household activities. With time, need of women changes they demand to have education, show interest to make a career, work outside and ofcource there was enough sense in their demand so, again it was collectively agreed to allow them to do what was needful and with the passage of time the condition of women has improved dramatically in last 100 years.

                      Now "Girls" kindly pour some sense into yourself & tell would it be possible in this patriarchal world to stand on your feet without the contribution & effort of men? And the contribution of women in the field of women empowerment 100 years back was not even recognizable. Men and women are God’s 2 different creation, their biological system is different, their pattern of thinking is different hence the way of treating them in society should be ideally different. Men not wanting their women to dress short is nothing to do with the supremacy of man, rather it is a matter of maintaining Dignity in society which is at par set for a country like India (good or bad I am not getting into debate).

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