Being puzzeled in your life is not always a bad phase in your life, sometimes it allows you to avoid the pain, Agony and Disdain you could have if you would have certain with your descision. And after a leap of time you realize that being puzzeled was the best descision taken by you on that particular time, Sometimes it has the power to save a relation. These are the things i do not want to discuss with anyone, and i never wanted them to be discussed with me even, despite of that if these were discussed with me so what is the harm if i share them with you. Sometimes it makes me feel i have lost the art of writing but as i said i am puzzeled i actually find that the art of writing was snatched from me by some evil force, or if i am only afraid of loosing this art however the art is still there within myself and i have still not lost it... Sorry i cannot write anymore... but one thing i have surely gained and the gained thing over the lost one surely have some value more than the former. That is "The art of forgiving" atleast i should know for what i am forgiving. this is the Art, the art is to forgive the person without knowing his mistakes, without knowing why you are choosen to forgive him, without knowing what should be the reasonable punishment if you wont have forgiven him. This art in not easy to learn.